I was at the gym tonight thinking of all the ways that I have felt guilty as a mom, and I wonder if it's just me...
1) My current dilemma is weaning my baby from breastfeeding. I will soon return to work, and I have decided to start weaning my little girl before I return. I went online for some advice on HOW to wean. When I searched "how to discontinue breastfeeding", what I found were articles that went on and on about the benefits of nursing and how it is best to nurse for two years. I understand the benefits. That's why I chose to nurse in the first place. And although I am emotional when I think of no longer breastfeeding, the decision has been made. I just need some advice on HOW!
2) I started by mentioning that I was at the gym tonight. I should point out that I am not an athlete or a gym-junkie. But I have been going to the gym since 4 weeks after my c-section out of pure pressure to look good. I am afraid to return to work still wearing my maternity clothes. I feel as though the other women at work will be looking at me and judging me based on how I look. I can hear it now..."So how much weight have you lost?"... Anybody have any advice???
3) My husband and I each commute over an hour from home to our offices. For this reason, we have decided to use the time of our 12-week maternity/paternity leave to find a new home closer to the office. However, I am nervous at the idea that it will be rough for my son. He absolutely adores his daycare provider and his daycare friends, and they all love him. I just worry that it's a lot of change for him at once...new sister, new house, new daycare... Any advice on how to make the transition easier for him?
4) Now that my son is almost 4 years old, I would like to enroll him in some organized activities, but I don't know which would be best. Soccer? Karate? Tennis? Can someone give me some advice on what things to consider? Cost? Schedule? Anything else?
Okay - so I think I have laid enough on you for one night. I should probably get some sleep. The little one will surely be waking up soon for a feeding.
I thank you in advance for any advice or thoughts you can share.
-Barbara-
